We Like to Draw Out Our Celebrating As Long As Possible

I think I’ve said this before, but I’ve always been a birthweek celebrator. I mean–if a birthDAY is fun and awesome (and it IS!), then how much better would a birthWEEK be? And to be totally honest, the older I’ve gotten, the more I’ve actually become a sort of birthMONTH celebrator. (A whole 30 days to celebrate ME?! Yes please!)

So when Kaycie & Alex’s wedding began to turn into a whole weekend affair, I was on board. We Maurer’s are celebrators–the more party the better. And I mean logistically speaking, it’s a bit tricky to do it all in one day anyhow. The closest LDS temple is in Columbia–a whole three hours away. How is it even possible to drive there, do the whole sealing ceremony thing, and drive back PLUS set up and attend a reception in one day? It’s just not.

Plus we are the only Mormons in our family, meaning no one but the immediate six of us could attend the actual wedding (you have to be a member of the Church to enter the temple). So in lieu, Kayc & Alex opted to have a ring ceremony in addition to their sealing ceremony where family and friends not of our faith could still attend a wedding-like event.

So, on the day after they were officially married, and right before the reception, everyone walked down the aisle, our dad officiated, mom sang, and Kayc and Alex exchanged vows and rings, all against the backdrop of the Carolina marshes. Gor-GEOUS.

After the ring ceremony everyone gathered inside for a southern buffet of pulled pork sandwiches, homemade macaroni & cheese, green beans, cornbread, and peach cobbler and dancing. Lotsa dancing. Awwww yeeaah.

At the end of the night, we sent the two of them off on their honeymoon with bubbles and cheers.

Celebrate indeed.

Where the Promises of Eternity Rest

It was a small gathering, in a quiet room, where the only sounds were the occasional happy whispers of dearest friends. The chandelier above, with its thousands of glass prisms, glittered from the ceiling and the mirrors on opposite walls bounced reflections into eternity.

The alter stood in the middle of the room, a cathedral unto itself, and I couldn’t help but think about all the forevers that have been promised across its sacred, holy plain.

They knelt, holding hands, unable to take their eyes off of each other. And all I could see was her, my baby sister, dressed in white, with tears brimming at her lashes, vowing to be his wife, to love him and be with him always, and in turn opening herself not only to his vow to do the same in return, but to the blessings of God upon their lives both now and throughout eternity.

I, believe in marriage. I believe in the family. And I believe in the joy that comes from the relationships of husband and wife, parent and child.

The world around us would tell us otherwise–that marriage isn’t important, that infidelity is no big deal, that a full bank account is better than a full dinner table. But I do not, nor will I ever, buy that.

Marriages are worth fighting for. They’re worth fighting to keep. And they’re worth fighting to have. Children are worth loving and raising. Families are worth creating.

It is within the nucleus of a family that the promises of eternity rest.

And that is what I know.

Kaycie & Alex were, what we Mormons call, “sealed” in the Columbia, South Carolina Latter-day Saint temple at 5:30 p.m., Friday, August 12. It was a happy day for our family and I feel blessed to now have two incredible brothers-in-law. More pictures on Facebook.

Tomorrow, He and She Become “They”

The sun was still sleeping under the watery covers of an Atlantic horizon, but the sky was pink–that timid pink, you only get at first light.

He stood, stoic and handsome in his gray pinstriped suit, watching the waves. Waiting for her.

She walked down the boardwalk, her gown gathered in hand, hair and veil blowing in the wind. Her smile was as big as the ocean.

He turned. And didn’t say a word. He couldn’t. All he could do was wrap her up in his arms and hold her.

Which is what he plans to do for forever.

They’re getting married tomorrow. Those two. And this morning I photographed their “first look” on the beach at sunrise.

Kaycie’s Wedding Week, or in other words–Total Insanity at our house

And I do mean Total Insanity. With a capital T. Capital I.

Right now–the lawn men are out front planting flowers, trimming trees, and cleaning the yard.

Right now–my mom is at the Home Depot picking up more shrubs for said lawn men. Oh and don’t forget the light switch plates. Gotta have new light switch plates for wedding week.

Right now–the grout is drying on the tile I laid this weekend in the kitchen.

(Do not ask me why we’re doing home improvements the same week as the wedding.)

Right now–Kaycie (a.k.a. the baby sister, a.k.a. the bride) is on the phone giving assignments & recipes to the ladies from Church who signed up to help with food for the reception.

Right now–I am realizing just how much food we too will need to make to supplement the food the ladies are making.

Right now–I’m looking at the list of everything else that still needs to be done: take bridals and groomals on the beach, make the wedding cake, make the bouquets/corsages/boutonnieres, order prints from the photo shop, figure out the chaffing dish situation, collect serving platters, buy the reception food, make the pulled pork/mac&cheese/southern beans/peach cobbler for 150 people, get manicures/pedicures for bridal party, go on sunset dinner cruise with the bride & groom families the night before the wedding, drive to Columbia to attend the wedding, decorate for the reception the next day, and photograph all of it.

Right now–I’m pretty sure I’m going to elope when it’s my turn.

But gosh is it going to be fun. And so so beautiful.

I mean look at these two. How cute are they?

5 Things That Happened Today

Five things that happened today:

1. A dragonfly wing–a whole and completely intact dragonfly wing–fell out of the sky and landed at my feet today. I have decided that this is good luck.

For me.

Not the dragonfly.

2. I took a really long nap after work.

One of my favorite lines in the movie Letters to Juliet (which is a lovely, wonderfully romantic movie up until the last 15 minutes when it then becomes horrible. It’s like the writers lost their words at the very last second when it mattered most.) is when Clair says to Sophie, “One of life’s great joys is having one’s hair brushed.” True. Very true. (It’s such a beautiful scene.)

Well–I have decided that one of life’s great pleasures is an afternoon nap.

3. The baby sister and I drove to Jacksonville tonight. We’re staying in a hotel by the airport because she flies out at the buttcrack tomorrow morning. Like 4:45 a.m. Ooof. But I thoroughly enjoyed the drive. We talked wedding plans. And I love her. So very very much.

4. I didn’t eat any meat.

I decided about three months ago that I was going to be a vegetarian. If you want to avoid a similar fate, do not–I repeat, do not–watch the documentary Food, Inc. For almost 90 days now I’ve not eaten one ounce of meat. It’s been pretty easy, although I think about BBQ’d ribs a lot. And I don’t think I’ll stay vegetarian for the rest of my life–I’m too much of a foodie. But it’s made me think about my food–where it comes from, how it’s prepared, and how balanced and healthy my food lifestyle is, or rather–wasn’t.

Oh, and if you have a great vegetarian recipe, please send it my way. Bean and cheese quesadillas get real old real fast.

5. I took a swig of a caffeine-free diet Coke and gagged.

I do realize that it seems counter-intuitive that I would go off meat, but still drink the poison carbonation. But I’ve never claimed to be rational. And despite being off soda for years, I can’t seem to curb a recent craving for the fizz. But anyway. I would suggest avoiding caffeine-free diet Coke. It serves absolutely no purpose. No sugar. No caffeine. No taste. In short–it’s disgusting.

Leftovers

Well. After Kaycie’s bridal shower, the string of events that *was* “Maurer Mania” came to a close and everyone hopped on planes bound for their respective corners of the country.

And I? I am left with a quiet house and oodles of pictures from our crazy week together. Here are just a few that make me smile.

Family–is good.

(And yes. I do realize most of them feature baby Laela. But what can I say? I’m a sucker for “the squishy.”)

Spring Bridal Shower & a Really Sweet Video

I had hoped for warm, sunny weather. But silly me to dream of a garden party with linens fluttering in the breeze. This is Utah after all, and we just had another snowstorm this past weekend, so, the bridal shower for the baby sister had to be held inside.

But no matter. We set to work turning my living room into a fanciful den of girlish whimsy.

Kaycie’s colors are marigold, green apple, and gray (LOVE!) so I began gathering different patterned paper from craft stores to create garlands and drapes for the windows and tables.

Then I strung lace doilies onto about 100 feet of twine for a ceiling garland and paired that with silver and yellow tissue poms.

On the gift table I layered yellow and white patterned vintage linens and then created mini displays with photos of Kayc and Alex, tulips (one of her flowers), paper flowers, and vases of greenery.

For the entryway I haphazardly strung more paper flowers with ribbons and garlands.

The menu included: bagels and cream cheese, yogurt/granola/mixed fruit parfaits, egg hash casserole, orange-cranberry scones, iced lemon bread, and blackberry cupcakes.

All of Kaycie’s friends were so kind and generous and each of them received a handmade crocheted lace bib necklace as a thank you for coming. Again, thank you for coming ladies!

But by far, my favorite part of the whole shower was the video I put together for Kayc. We watched it at the end of the brunch and I dare say, we were all in tears. Kaycie’s Alex just so sweet. And funny. And head over heels in love with my sis. Or “Whooped,” as my dad called it.

Kaycie & Alex: Their Love Story from Krista Maurer on Vimeo.

Congratulations babe! We love you and are so happy for you and “Lexie.” He’s a gem and I feel blessed to get another awesome brother-in-law. xo

The Baby Sister

She just left my house with her fella. Headed back to Provo. With a ring on her finger and a smile on her face.

They got engaged tonight. These two crazy kids I adore. And I love that they came by my house to tell me the news.

He loves my sister so much. And that makes me love him to the moon and back.

And her? Well I don’t possess words enough to explain how I feel about her.

Congratulations my dears. You make me happy.

xo,

Your big sister

I’ve Got Moves You’ve Never Seen (and never will, if you’re lucky)

Once upon a time, I had a big fancy office with my name on the door. It was seriously humongous. I didn’t even have enough furniture to fill it. It was also during this time that I had interns (more than one) and an assistant working for me.

Well, the north wall of this big fancy office was made of windows–corner to corner, floor to ceiling. And this wall of windows looked out on South Temple Street in Salt Lake City. I had a view of the gardens on Temple Square and could see all the comings and goings of the LDS Church Administration Building. In fact, as a side note, my friend Jessica, who worked in the office next to me, and I played Apostle Bingo for months–we made game cards and everything–to see who could sight the most Apostles on Temple Square.

But anyway, like I said, I had a big, fancy office with a big, fancy wall of windows, and my name was on the door (once upon a time). You would think that some amount of decorum and dignity would come with such a work space. Let me assure you–it didn’t.

Case in point: Whenever something great happened, namely, placing a great story for one of my recording artists with the media, or creating a killer press kit wherein my writing skills wowed even me … we would dance. Nay. We would DANCE! I would crank the music on my speakers (this was a record label that I worked at after all), call the interns and Jessica (she was the booking agent) in, and we would celebrate with a good old-fashioned dance party.

In fact, one time we were dancing and a group of high school students on a field trip were walking on the sidewalk below. It was hilarious to see the ripple effect as one of them saw us, nudged his neighbor, and pointed up. Pretty soon the whole group was staring, which then gave way to cheering, and then … dancing with us. It was fantastic.

Well. It’s been a while since I had that big, fancy office (it was once upon a time, after all). Instead of business suits, I wear yoga pants. Oh alright! Most of the time I wear pajamas. Sheesh! It’s not that big’a deal. I don’t have a nice, shiny desk, but I do have a freakin’ cushy couch. I have no interns or assistants, it’s just me, myself, and I. (And the three of us have some pretty interesting conversations by the water cooler, if you must know. Oh alright. We don’t have a water cooler, but we DO have a fully stocked refrigerator.)

Anyhow my point is this (you were wondering when we’d get to that weren’t you?): While I’m not a great dancer (in my heart I am. In my heart I’m Debbie Allen. From Fame? Remember? Oh nevermind. Actually I always wanted to be CoCo or the girl who played the cello in the empty practice room. What was her name?). Wait. Where was I? Oh right. So even though I’m not a great dancer, and even though I’m by myself, I think it’s time to reinstate the practice of mid-day dance parties.

Why? Because I have a lot to celebrate. Even when I don’t think I do. And because I’m certain that if I have enough dance parties, I’ll eventually look like this:

Or this:

OK. Maybe not.

But at least I’m celebrating!

Maybe I’ll even open the blinds and if I’m lucky the neighbor kids will walk by and join in.

*In case you’re wondering, those are pictures I took of my baby sister Kaycie at her final hip hop showcase at BYU last week. She’s a rockstar. And she’s hot.

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You Have Sisters

I have a hilarious story about how my roommate and I got stuck in the elevator at work last night ☺ … but that’s a post for another time. Today I have to, need to, want to share a story about my sisters.

I have two amazing younger sisters. One, who at times can be the most difficult person you’ve ever met, can also be the most loving, caring, and sensitive. She’s a fighter. A scrapper. And always a friend to the underdog. She’s climbed mountains in this life. Rugged and steep. And she always makes it to the top, no matter how long it takes. I admire her. And I look up to her.

The other is our baby. And that’s what we call her. And for the most part, that’s what we’ve always seen her as. But today, my baby sister had to do a really hard thing. It may
have even been the hardest thing she’s ever had to do in her life to date. And while it’s utterly impossible to love her more than I already did, I’ve perhaps never been more proud of her. Today I saw her for the woman she has become. And what an amazing woman that is.

Now for the story … A few months back, the three of us went to the Colbie Caillat concert here in Salt Lake. We were so excited about it and I was particularly thrilled to be going with my girls. We arrived early so we’d get good seats and waited through the openers. After the first act, they announced the second – Trevor Hall. The name sounded familiar to us, but we didn’t think twice about it until he came on and Kaycie (our baby) screamed “Ohmigosh, it’s Trevor Hall!” He and Kaycie had gone to school together back in South Carolina. Actually we’d all gone to school together but he and Kaycie had been in the same grade.

My sisters and I all went to a private school that included grades 2 through 12, so although Kaycie was age 10 and in 4th grade when I graduated, we were in the same school. And we loved that. Even when “we” (i.e Karly and Kaycie, or Karly and I, never Kaycie and I) fought, like siblings do, we were always super close. And going to the same school, I think, gave us each, particularly Kayc, a measure of security. If something went wrong, we knew we could find our sisters. And we were really quite an anomaly. Most of the other siblings we went to school with were definitely not as close or as nice to each other. I even remember Kaycie saying one day how her friends thought it was “so cool” that her older sisters were so nice to her and included her and hugged her in the halls. But we never thought much about it. That’s just how it was for us.

So anyways, back to the concert. Trevor finished his set (’twas fabulous). Colbie came on (’twas seriously fabulous). And after the show we waited around to say hi. When the lines finally died down and Kaycie could get up to the table, she said, “You probably don’t remember me, but we went to school together …” and as she was finishing her sentence his eyes lit up and despite the fact that he was higher than a kite, he said, “Ohmigosh!” He recognized her and then added, “You have sisters!”

We all laughed and she said, “yeah they’re here!” And Karly and I waved. It was a seemingly funny thing for him to blurt out at that moment – “you have sisters!” But over the last little while I’ve thought a lot about his reaction. I’ve thought of all the things he could have said at that moment. Of all the memories from grade school he and Kaycie shared. But of all those things, the one thing he remembered about Kaycie was that she had sisters. And I love that. To me it says we three Maurer girls are “tight.” It says that the people around us know what, and more importantly, who, is most important to us. I love my girls and I love knowing that each of us has two cheerleaders in our corner no matter what. And I’m glad THAT is what people remember about us.

Kayc … I know you know that we love you most. But today especially, I hope you’ll remember that “You have sisters.” I can only imagine how your heart must hurt. I can only imagine the number of tears you’ve cried. But you are one amazing little woman. One amazing little baby. ☺ Kar and I are here. Your cheerleaders. Your safe place. You have sisters and I couldn’t be more grateful to be yours, especially today.

Tell me: Do you have siblings? What do you love about them?

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