Moustache Bash (with a party-planning download)

Back in March my very dear, very BFF Katie happened to be in town to take me out for my birthday. She and I were college roommates throughout our BYU experience, but she has since moved to California where she got herself a big fancy job, along with a pretty fantastic husband (holy smokes, did she find herself a gem).

So like I said, in March we were having dinner (at a restaurant that required reservations no less–sister knows how to treat a birthday-girl right!), talking and eating and talking and eating–appetizers, main course, dessert, the whole works–when I asked how the baby-making was going. I knew she and her husband had been trying and we’re close enough friends that I can pry and ask questions like that, yo.

She said they were still trying and hopefully soon something would … she stopped mid-sentence … queue big smile followed by excited burst, “Can you keep a secret?!?!?!” (Because obviously she couldn’t.) Tears (the good ones) immediately began to brim in my eyes as she told me she was expecting. She hadn’t told anyone yet because it was all so new–she was barely a month along–but she had to tell me. “You’re by BFF! I have to tell my BFF! Kurt’s gonna kill me. You can’t tell anyone. Just you, me, and Kurt know right now.” And I just cried and cried, and laughed and laughed (because it IS kind of fun to be in on a secret like that!)–so happy for my friend.

Of course, I’m always happy when someone tells me they’re expecting–babies are such exciting and special news. But having such a dear, close, and important friend tell me she was pregnant–well that was a whole different experience.

Perhaps it’s because we’re older (by our Mormon-culture standards), actually–that’s exactly what it is. Kate and I have known each other for more than 15 years. We’ve seen, quite intimately, each other’s heartache and heartbreak. We’ve been the support, the listening ear, the hopeful cheerleader, when one relationship after another didn’t work, understanding completely the deep and sometimes painful desire to love and be loved, to be a wife, to build a home, to start a family. So when it happens … somehow … somehow, the waiting makes it mean all the more.

When I saw her this weekend–I mean of course I had to hostess the baby shower!–I felt like I might explode from happy. To see her round belly and expecting eyes, to celebrate her and the life she has created and will soon deliver? There really aren’t words.

I love you, Kate.

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For the shower, we had a moustache bash. I had a blast planning and creating and I’m sure I only slightly scared the girls who helped make the food with my unyielding control-freakish-ness.

I kept saying, “Katie’s shower ‘this’” and “Katie’s shower ‘that’” and finally Frit looked at me and said, “Let’s be honest here. This is your shower. Katie just gets to go home with the presents.” Which, might be only slightly true. (Okay, it’s all true.) But look what a grande party it was!

p.s. I created a .pdf of all the party elements I designed, if anyone wants to host their own. Download it here.

Christmas Gifts for YOU! [Christmas Music]

I know a lot of really talented people, particularly musicians. It’s one of my favorite things about my life–getting the inside scoop on new indie music from fantastic up-and-coming artists. So today, when I heard my friend Ryan‘s cover of Silent Night, I thought I’d died and gone to heaven. I had no idea I could love this song any more than I already did, but this version is without comparison. It’s the most moving musical experience I’ve had in a while. Ryan’s voice is like butter dripping with black forest honey. And as if it couldn’t get any better, not only can you listen to it, you can download it for free…

HERE

You’re welcome. And merry Christmas!

xo

Christmas Gifts for YOU! [2011 Mini Calendar]

I have wanted to do something for y’all for weeks now. To thank you. For coming. For reading. For being friends. Through everything. All year long.

After a bit of thought, I have a few surprises up my sleeve for these last few days of 2010, but to start off, I created a mini 2011 calendar with some of my favorite photographs for you to download. Like I said, it’s miniature–the perfect size for a quick glance reference on your fridge, bulletin board, desk, or pocketbook.

I hope you like. And merry merry Christmas.

xo

CLICK HERE TO DOWNLOAD your FREE 2011 Mini Calendar by Island Belle Photography

To leave a thought or comment, or to thank me for being so kind, simply scroll down.

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Farewell to Summer: Our Latest Dinner Party

It all began with an email that read:

Sept. 9, 2010

Dearest Cookie (a.k.a. Frit),
Did you realize that the last day of Summer is this month? Well, it is. The 21st of September to be exact. And so I propose … a dress up dinner party hostessed by toi et moi (that’s “you and me” in French. I learned that the other day when I was watching my French subtitled movie from Netflix On Demand). A “Farewell to Summer” dinner party if you will.
What do you think? Invite 4 ladies, dresses required, and fancy to boot?
Fondly,
Kristafer

The reply to which, was:

Dear Cookie. Stop.
Though I am saddened to hear that summer will be departing, I think a dinner party in honor of the warm days is a splendid idea.
Sincerely. Cordially. And affectionately.
Frit
And so. A guest list was finalized, a plan was outlined, and invitations were mailed.
(Sidenote: I illustrated the banner on our invitations which you are free to download here if you would like use it in the future. Simply paste into a Word document or other editing program, type in your party info, and print. *Remember–it’s for personal use only. Please do not sell my illustration or anything made from my illustration. Stealing makes me sad.)
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When the twenty-first arrived, I was beside myself with anticipation and began the day busily making final preparations … ironing the linens, polishing the silverware, gathering supplies for the centerpieces, preparing an assortment of foods. But when I went to hang the bistro lights on the patio outside, I found the bees were out in full force and I knew there was no way we would enjoy a relaxing dinner with all the buzzing in our backyard. I could foresee the swatting and cowering with a final mad dash back into the house, plates in hand, my lovely table abandoned.
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And that, my friends, is why you must always have a Plan B when hostessing a party.
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I moved the party inside and while the decor wasn’t what I’d originally envisioned (that is, buntings and lights hanging from the trellis to match the invitations I’d drawn) it still turned out perfectly.
I used a white tablecloth as my base, with two pinky-peach runners laid across the width of the table on each end. On top of that I placed a hand-laced square overlay that I found while on a holiday in Scotland. I also arranged an assortment of glassware around the table and placed tea-lights in each.
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For the centerpieces, I bought three bouquets from the grocer: 1 dozen peach roses, 6 stems of pink snap dragons, and a handful of yellow wildflower fillers, to divide and arrange between three vases filled with water and clear glass stones. I then wrapped each vase (2 of which were mason jars) with hemp twine and tied with a loose bow.
As for place settings, I used large white dinner plates, chartreuse linen napkins with silverware to the sides (knife and spoon on the right, fork on the left … in case you wondered), beveled glass bowls for the dinner rolls, stemmed glasses for iced water and mason jars for lemonade. It was summer casual meets simple elegance.
Place cards were printed with each person’s name and various quotes about summer including …
The summer night is like a perfection of thought.  ~Wallace Stevens
In summer, the song sings itself.  ~William Carlos Williams
A life without love is like a year without summer.  ~Swedish Proverb
Summer afternoon – summer afternoon; to me those have always been the two most beautiful words in the English language.  ~Henry James
Sun is shining. Weather is sweet. Make you wanna move your dancing feet. ~Bob Marley

On the menu we had:

Grilled Marinated Chicken
(halved chicken breasts soaked in a mixture of olive oil, sparkling cider, lemon juice, dijon mustard, and basil for 3 hours and then grilled up on the George Foreman)
Warm Garlic String Beans
(blanch 1-pound of string beans for 2 minutes. Return to a saucepan with 3 tablespoons olive oil, 1 tablespoon butter, 4 cloves of garlic minced, 3 tablespoons lemon juice, 1/2 teaspoon salt, and a 1/4 teaspoon black pepper. Cook about 4 minutes over medium-high heat. Toss in 2 tablespoons chopped flat-leaf parsley and 1 tablespoon grated lemon zest. Serve warm.)
Lemon Rice Pilaf
(prepare rice and risotto as instructed on packaging but substitute 1/4 of the water with fresh lemon juice, add herbs as desired. Sprinkle with chopped parsley when served.)
Dinner Rolls from Sego Lily Cafe in Bountiful
(the rolls are worth the drive from anywhere, but the Butternut Squash Ravioli will put you over the edge.)
with my Citrus Tart for dessert
It was a light, fresh meal–a perfect etude of summer.
In attendance we had the lovely and talented Brooke, a long-time friend who immediately came to mind when we began planning. (And just so you know, you should totally download her new CD. Tracks 3 and 6 are my faves.)
As well as the beautiful Misses Kelly and LuAnn, who drove all the way from American Fork (an hour away) to have dinner with us. Kelly was a blog reader I had never met–I drew her name from those who emailed interest in coming when I extended the invitation to all of you readers. She brought her mother LuAnn as her guest and as soon as they walked in, they felt like old friends. They own Lu Kels, a darling online boutique (speaking of…I’ve got my eye on the red 3-button cadet cap. Isn’t it fantastic?!) and were so fun to meet. It was honestly a perfect group of people.
Our dear neighbor Paula was also on the guest list but had to cancel last minute due to her twin babes being sick. This was sad news for many reasons. First, Paula is down-right hilarious and fun to have around. Second, we would have loved to give her a night away from the kids. And third, Paula is an amazing violinist and we’d asked her to bring her violin to favor us with a mini concert. But no matter, we took her a plate of deliciousness later that night and kept her at the top of the list for the next dinner party.
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And as for the concert, we still had plenty of entertainment. Brooke and I each sang a couple of songs and that in and of itself made my whole night. Singing around the piano with friends is balm to the soul.
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I honestly had the most wonderful evening–meeting new friends, sitting with old ones, sharing food and laughter. That’s the reason I love to hostess. Nourishment in every way. I hoped our guests knew how grateful we were that they came. And if they didn’t, we gave them a jar of homemade peach jam to remind them.
(Thank you so much Brookie, Kelly, and LuAnn. You’re all so wonderful and Frit and I had the most fantastic time with you. xoxo)
And now? I’m just scheming for the next party. Can’t wait!

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Count Your Blessings (Even in the Shower)

This was me in the shower yesterday: Krista In the Shower … Take 1 Nice huh? Hmm… What can I say? It’s my favorite place to sing? It’s just too bad there’s no auto-tuner for shower singing.

Well, that hymn (“Count Your Blessings”) has been on repeat in my head (and thus, out my mouth) nonstop as of late, which is interesting because it’s not even one of my favorites. I mean I like it well enough, but I don’t necessarily jump for joy when it’s on the communique at Church. Not that I jump around in the chapel anyhow, but there are definitely other hymns I enjoy more than this one. Nevertheless, I’ve found myself singing it often these last couple weeks.

I’m certain I’m not as thankful as I ought to be. I note frequently, even to God, the things that are missing in my life, the things that have been taken away before I was ready to give them up, the things I didn’t want but got, the things I do want but don’t have, and on and on. And while I know we are to ask if we are to receive, I also know we are to thank the Lord in all our doings.

All our blessings do come from above and they come in abundance, I know this is true, if only we would open our eyes to see them and our arms to receive them. When I do this, I feel a greater sense of peace, less worry, less need, less want. My faith is stronger. My happiness heightened.

Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin said (in one of my all-time favorite speeches that you should totally read and re-read), “gratitude is a mark of a noble soul and a refined character.” That’s the kind of soul I want to be, the kind of character I want to have. And it comes by the virtue of gratitude.

With these things on my mind, I sat down to write out my own blessings. To count them one by one and see them in black and white …

A Heavenly Father who knows and loves me . A Savior who stands ready and waiting to save me . the gifts and feelings of the Holy Spirit that calm and lift me . prayer . the knowledge that Someone is actually listening to those prayers . music . answers to prayers . a mind that can understand and learn something new . a mother who would give anything for her children . a father who worked hard for his family and always put us first . sister Karly and her tender heart . sister Kaycie who makes me smile . Frit, the best of friends, who is always there . Kate, my BFF all through college and who continues to be a sounding board and friend of the best kind . hundreds of other friends who, as Anne would call them, are kindred spirits . touch in all its forms and with all its healing power: hugs, holding hands, sitting close, kisses, foreheads rested together, blessings, stroking, draping, arms touching, legs touching, massage, etc. . deep heartfelt conversations where no time is wasted on the surface . sunshine and all its varying degrees of light throughout the day . new days . new chances to try again . ideas . opportunities . my hands and the way they create . art . the Earth and all her beauty . the ocean . the sound of the waves . my dad’s business . the people who ride his boats . the “blues” of the world: the sea, the sky, the lakes and rivers . the teeny tiny birds who were perched in my lavender patch this morning . the quiet of morning . the Scriptures and the way they bring me back to center . revelation and the knowledge that God speaks to us, guides us, teaches us, answers us . inspiration and the ability to hear and receive the voice of God . good books–all types . words to express . the white chocolate lime cake I made 2 times in the 4 days this week . a really comfortable bed with super soft sheets . clothes to wear . shoes to wear . the ability to read . clean water to drink . a really nice home that keeps me cool in summer and warm in winter . grandparents who always adored us girls . vacations . the river in Florida where my grandparents live and the canopy of trees above their house and the docks to sit and escape from life on . the chance to grow up on the most beautiful island . spanish moss and the way it drips from the tree limbs . people who ask me to take their pictures . people who hire me to sew for them . people who shop in my shop . people who ask me to be their marketing/PR consultant . a really great web-designer who does what I need quickly, and doesn’t get bent out of shape when I change my mind 14 times . money–there’s not a lot of it right now so I’ve learned lately to appreciate every cent that falls into my hands . the girls I teach at Church . laughter . my eyesight . my tastebuds . my ears that hear . my nose that smells . flowers that stop me dead in my tracks because they’re so fragrant . friendly love . familial love . romantic love . hope . the truth that we can, and should, hope for all things . creativity . life . the Olsen’s who let me come every week for Sunday dinner . a ward family who supports and is always there . Home Teachers who come every month . really great Sunday School teachers who take the time to prepare and relate the lessons to our lives . a Bishopric who prays for all of us . neighbors who are always looking out for Frit and I . the kids at Church (and everywhere really) who make me laugh . love between older couples . the hope of having my own children one day . the hope of having a husband one day . people who set me up on blind dates . the boy who is taking me out tonight . the past . mistakes . knowledge . my education . Utah and the home it’s become . my old job and all I learned there . my new flexible life . indoor plumbing . hot showers . the braces my dad paid for when I was a kid . opportunities to lead . all the camps and conferences I went to as a teenager . the Restored Gospel of Christ . the Holy Priesthood . men who honorably hold that Priesthood and use it to bless those around them . temples . the peaceful quiet joy I feel when I’m inside temples . the chance to serve a mission . all my companions while on my mission–for their friendship and the things I learned from each of them . the ability to teach . the people who let us into their homes on my mission . summertime . gardening . bright red strawberries . men who mow lawns and pull weeds so I don’t have to . my imagination . my heart . the ability to love and love well . exercise, even though I hate it . goals to reach for . fantastic teachers throughout my life . my tiny ward family back home–it was a branch when I was there, but I know I’m who I am today because of that place and those people . light . starry nights and that feeling I get when I lay on my back and take them all in but can’t comprehend the bigness of it all–it’s confusing but comforting all at the same time . the ability to think.

OK. My hour is up. I could keep going, but I’ll save it for another time. But let me also say that I’m grateful for you, who read and care and encourage me to write. I love knowing you’re out there and strangely a part of my life.

And speaking of YOU, I created a little print out for you, so that if you’d like to count your blessings too … you can. To post on your mirror and remember every day. I’ve been thinking that sitting down to fill one of these lists out might be a good weekly activity for Sunday afternoons. I also thought it would be a fun game for Family Night–whomever lists their 20 blessings first, wins a prize. Of course, little ones would need help so you could pair off in teams if that were the case, or you could even print or cut out pictures of blessings your family enjoys for young children to glue onto their paper. Either way … happy counting!

DOWNLOAD HERE, Save to Computer, Print and Cut

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Sniffles. Snowfall. & a FREE Download.

My eyes are scratchy. My throat is fiery. My head is fuzzy. In short … I think I am sick. How does that happen? I work from home for cryin’ out loud. And I don’t have kids. And I’m not kissing anyone (What a shame.). And this is so not a good week to be sick–my to-do list is bordering on insanity. Plus I wrenched my back a few days ago and am having trouble making it up and down from the couch. Plus it’s snowing. A lot.

Wow. Aren’t glad you stopped by THIS blog today?

So back to the to-do list. Though long, it’s actually filled with a lot of fun stuff, the best of which is that Frit and I are decking out our house for her younger brother and his girlfriend so they can have a deliciously romantic Valentine’s Day dinner here on Saturday. Yay! Yay! Yay! I LOVE holiday events, parties, special dinners, and the like. (But you already knew that.) I’m so excited about it in fact, I woke up yesterday at 4:30 a.m., my brains spinning with decoration ideas.

So you see…I do not have time to be sick or flat in bed with a messed up back or kept from venturing to the store due to snow. I gots stuff to DO people! But seeing as I am sick, flat in bed with a messed up back, and am still scared to drive in the snow despite having lived here for 13 years give or take a summer here and there, here’s another Valentine’s Day card I whipped up this morning from the comfort of my cozy, warm bed. (I could kiss the inventor of the laptop computer! But I won’t because then he/she might get sick too.)

So back to the Valentine’s Day card … I saw this phrase on a t-shirt once and thought it was sweet and quirky and cute. Speaking of quirky … did you know that someone (the 60-something-year-old male receptionist at my old job) once told me I wasn’t married because I was quirky? Really?

So back to the Valentine’s Day card …

Download for print HERE.

I also made an 8×10 color version if you want to print it, frame it, and add it to your Valentine’s Day decorations.

DOWNLOAD HERE

And then, because I’m in bed and have nothing to do, I was playing around with the exposure of that image above and wound up with this. For some reason I really like this blown out photo with the saturated oranges. Maybe you do too? Anyhow …DOWNLOAD HERE

Finally, in closing (it’s about time), here are a few links to some lovely projects I have bookmarked for future creating.

A Sweet Way to Give Valentine Sweets

Could there be a cuter way to send a note?!

Make your own personalized stationary. I think mine would say, “I like lollipops.” Or. “I hate snow.”

I’m such a sucker for garlands of any kind and this one is darling.

4 Free Valentine Card Downloads (from me to you!)

So since it’s Friday, and since the big Day-o-Love is in like 9 days, and since I don’t like shopping for cards (exhibit a), and since I can never find one that says the right thing in exactly the right way anyway, I figured I’d make my own. And then I thought … maybe you could use some too?!

I’m on a black and white kick these days so I wanted something clean and simple, with the emphasis on the message. I got some black envelopes and a white paint pen to label and address mine. Cut lines are marked on the page. And don’t be surprised if I offer some more tomorrow because I had so much fun making these.

Have a fantastic Friday! Happy weekend-ing. Oh and as always, feel free to share the link with friends and family.

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