How I Celebrated the Royal Wedding

I was so excited I couldn’t sleep. I kept waking up to check the time on my alarm clock. I didn’t want to sleep through it! Finally the clock read 1:57 a.m. and I raced downstairs, jumped under a Snuggie, and flipped on the tele. With tiara in place and my $10 engagement ring knock off on, I was ready to to watch. From 2 a.m. to 7 a.m. I was glued to the screen and I loved every second of it. I think Kate is one of the most lovely women on the planet.

Did you watch? What did you think?

In other news … the three winners of the crocheted lace pendants are:

  • Raquel
  • DeVonya Madsen
  • Melissa Wallace

Congratulations winners! Email me with your mailing address and I’ll pop those in the mail this weekend. And thanks to everyone who’s on my email list. My next goal is to get my email list up and running more regularly and with valuable content.

Cheers!

Tutorial: Crocheted Lace Bib Necklace

Please excuse this break in my coverage of the baby sister‘s graduation week, but I got a call from my producer at ABC yesterday asking if I would come in this morning to do a segment. They had a last minute cancellation and needed to fill the slot with “something great.” Que: Me! Well. Que my really great craft. I feel more like a blundering fool every time I’m on TV. But oh well! It’s fun.

So welcome to any new readers who found me via Good Things Utah! I’m Krista, a photographer, writer, and sometimes publicist/marketer. This site is where I share my pictures and words. Sometimes it’s about my work. Sometimes it’s a craft. Sometimes it’s about my roommate or my family. Sometimes it’s about my dating life (haha, jk. Those posts, like, never happen. But when they do … they’re pretty great.). Sometimes it’s my thoughts on my faith. And always it’s me trying to make sense of this life I’m living.

Today–it’s about how you can make your own Crocheted Lace Bib Necklace.

I made these necklaces to give as favors at the bridal shower I hostessed for my baby sister last week (more on that soon!). They are seriously so easy and take maybe 30 minutes to make. I’ve decided to give a few away, so you can enter to win one by signing up on the email list over there on the right column. I’ll draw three names Friday morning–right before I give my total attention to the day-long coverage of the Royal Wedding (Is anyone else as excited as I am?! Gaah!).

But if you just want to DIY…here’s how:

Supplies // 1 crocheted lace doily . 1 necklace clasp . 1″ wide strip of cotton fabric (1/2″ longer the center width of the doily) . 14″ of necklace chain . Needle n’ Thread . Iron . Scissors . Sewing Machine (optional)

1 // Begin with a small crocheted lace doily.

2 // Cut the doily across the center.

3 // Cut a strip of cotton fabric 1″ wide and 1/2″ longer than the width of your doily.

4 // Fold sides of fabric strip in about 1/4″ and iron. Then fold strip in half lengthwise and iron again.

5 // Place the unfinished edge of the doily inside the folded fabric strip. Pin in place if needed.

6 // Sew along fabric strip edge, being sure to catch the doily in your stitches. (Can be hand or machine sewn.)

7 //  Hand-stitch 7″ of necklace chain to each side of “bib.”
8 // Attach necklace clasp to ends of chain. (May require jump rings depending on sizes of chain links and clasp.)

All done! Easy right?! Lemme know if you have any questions!

And don’t forget to enter to win one by signing up on the email list over there (on the right near the top).

I. Love. BYU. [Maurer Mania: Part 1b]

Once we left the temple, we celebrated Kaycie (& mom’s birthday) with lunch at one of our favorite family spots and then it was straight to campus to get good seats for graduation. Or … at least get seats.

This translates to lots of waiting.

But it felt good to just sit there and take it all in. My own college graduation ceremony had been right there in the same arena seven years prior.

A lot has happened in seven years.

And while I’ve always had a soft spot for my alma mater, last week, my love grew ten-fold. I. really. love. that. place. I love how clean and bright and light it is. I love the memories and friendships I made there. I love the education, both secular and spiritual, I received there. And I love what it stands for.

“Enter to learn. Go forth to serve.” That’s the motto of BYU.

As I was reminded of that throughout the ceremony, I began thinking about where I’ve come from, what I’m doing now, and where I’m headed next. I never could have imagined that I’d be where I am now when I left BYU. I had no idea what was in store. Both the good. And the bad.

Elder Richard G. Scott, of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, delivered the keynote address. In his remarks he outlined ten principles, a formula per say, for a life of happiness. While I realize he was speaking to the graduates, I think it applies to all of us. And it was good for me to compare my life to his list.

  • Establish a set of principles to guide your life … principles like faith, service, obedience, integrity, etc.
  • Don’t make exceptions to your standards
  • Be loyal
  • Live so that the Lord can guide you to where He wants you to serve
  • Serve others
  • Smile
  • Don’t complain
  • Always have a Church assignment
  • Go to the temple
  • Use the Savior, Jesus Christ, as your example for life and never make exceptions to this

Since graduation, I’ve thought quite a bit. And I’ve tried to pay attention to every minute wave of inspiration and revelation that has come. Most importantly, I need to figure out how my life, my current path, the talents I’m using, and the opportunities I’m pursuing are blessing others. Am I “doing good” or am I just cruising along and paying the bills? Am I using what I know and what I do to help another person in some way? I need want to take seriously the blessing and responsibility it is to be a graduate of Brigham Young University.

And … I’m wondering. If maybe. Possibly. I. Sort of. Want to go back to school? I have never–and I mean never–wanted to go back for graduate schooling. And I don’t know that I will. Or if I even had a good enough GPA in undergrad to get in. Or if I could pass the GRE. But. I wonder. Maybe?

Last week I felt a small inkling of maybe. Maybe that’s something I want to do. Or maybe it’s something I’m supposed to do. Maybe.

As we walked around campus, I could see myself there again. And part of me wanted to be there again. So. We’ll see.

Either way. I just really love that place.

(Isn’t she so beautiful? I’m so proud of her.)

She Grew Up [Maurer Mania: Part 1a]

I recently found this letter folded up amongst my papers and files from childhood. I wrote it in 1987. I was in second grade. She was only months old.

Needless to say, she didn’t listen to me.

Last week was what we dubbed “Maurer Mania.” To be honest, any family gathering these days is called such as they always resemble a jam-pack whirlwind of insanity, festivities, milestones, and celebration. I guess that’s what you get when you live so far away from one another–when you do finally end up in the same town together you have to fill it with all the important “stuff.”

And this time, the “stuff,” was all about her, my baby sister Kaycie.

Our first morning together included a visit to the Mount Timpanogos LDS Temple, where she attended for the first time. In our faith, you generally go to the temple for the first time before you either enter into missionary service or marriage. (There are certainly other instances when it’s appropriate to begin attending the temple, but in general, that’s the case. And once you attend for the first time, you are encouraged to return often for worship and instruction.)

It was such a special day for all of us since Kaycie is the last of our immediate family to begin attending the temple. My parents went for the first time in 1980, a year after they had converted to Mormonism. I went in 2000 when I was preparing to serve a mission. My sister Karly then joined us in 2005 when she too went on a mission.

As we gathered together at the end of our session, I looked around at all of us (sans Karly’s husband since he was in the foyer taking care of their new baby)–Mom, dad, me, Kar, Kayc, Kaycie’s fiance Alex, Alex’s family, Kaycie’s friends–sharing the moment, supporting and loving our “baby” as she took that next step in her life’s path. It was a pinnacle moment.

When it was time to leave, I watched Kaycie as she hugged and thanked everyone for being there with her, and I couldn’t help but marvel at the woman she has become. Gosh dangit. She’s so grown up.

Still the baby.

Always the baby.

But so. grown. up.

FranSISco! That’s Fun to Say!

It was Tuesday morning. I hadn’t gotten out of bed yet. My phone buzzed on top of the old milk crate reincarnated as a bedside table.  The tiny florescent screen read: Q! I have a crazy idea! …

A few texts later, it was decided–I would be flying to San Fransisco that weekend for a 24-hour whirlwind of adventure, fun, and memories.

Saturday morning I tipped my hat to the frigid desert and within one hour landed smack dab in middle of the warm, golden Bay. Invigorated by the bustle of city life and sunshine, we mazed through traffic and trolleys and found ourselves in a line a block long for what promised to be the most delicious brunch I’d had in my life. “Delicious” didn’t even come close.

We started with cake. Yes, cake. With frosting divine. And from there, moved on to banana bread masquerading as french toast and jam-slathered sandwiches. How had I never eaten a Monte Cristo before now?, I kept asking myself. If I was on death row, I decided, a Monte Cristo is what I would eat for my final meal. My mouth was so happy it cried.

We left the cafe with stomachs as round and happy as the yellow ball in the sky. The beautiful thing about a city of never-ending hills and horrible parking options is that you can eat like that and think nothing of it. And we didn’t. The only thing to think about was what to do next.

The wharf? The shopping district? We’d both been there, done that and wanted something new. Within ten minutes we were northbound headed for a sleepy beach off the coastal highway. Sunroof open, the heat poured in and the wind rushed past. The rolling hills and sweeping fields filled me to the brim with green.

Two hours later we were standing on the sand staring into the fog, the wicked ocean air whipping past our faces and through our hair with exfoliating fury. Waves crashed, culling the sandy shore and building it back up again. We laughed and breathed, filling our lungs with the salty sea–a preservative for the soul. All too soon, it was time to return. The city was calling–promising a glittery night of music and lights.

But not before we stopped again for food. If I didn’t know it before, I know it now. I love dining. I love the linens and the silver. I love the sound of clinking glass and the hum of conversation that rises above the tables, wafting through the room like the scent of herbs from the kitchen. I love the total body nourishment of sharing a meal with a friend. Food, quite complexly, is good for the heart.

We arrived at the hotel with no time to spare–silk and sequins spilling out from our suitcases. A quick turn in the mirror and we were ready to go. We floated down twenty-two floors to the lobby, through the glass doors held open by a suited doorman, and into a shiny black taxi with the softest leather seats.

Twenty minutes later we were sitting high in velvet chairs as the lights dimmed and the conductor took the stage. A handsome French cellist pulled his bow across a 300-year-old instrument–the sound, rich and full, lifted, seeking, filling the darkest corners of the hall. It was stunning. He was stunning.

The second act, Berlioz’s Symphonie Fantastique, was exactly that–fantastique. I was awed at the music and couldn’t help but wonder at how the symphony moved. It was a visual feast as much as it was auditory. Each instrument its own entity, but collectively they became this living organism. The bows of the strings, the mallets of the timpani, the sliding arms of the trombones–it was as if, with every note, they were a lung breathing air, and in the process, pushing oxygen into us. By the end of the fifth movement the aliveness of the audience was palpable and at the last note it erupted like a volcano into applause and bravos. Five curtain calls later, we were still clapping.

As we left the gilded glass hall, the night air was brisk and busy, filled with the stars of the city–headlights, traffic lights, and sparkling skyscrapers. We hailed a taxi–a first for me, and an exciting one at that–and our driver dropped us off on a corner in Union Square where we ordered desserts to go and walked back to our hotel. Heels off and nylons strewn, I slowly lifted fork to mouth, savoring every sweet crumb of the mango key-lime dream I held in front of me as I sank into a cloud of a bed.

“I want this day to be a vacation for the senses,” I’d told her earlier that morning. “I want to see beautiful things, and taste beautiful things. I want to hear, touch and smell beauty.” I’d no idea how the day would deliver. And deliver it did. Every molecule of every minute was filled with gorgeous life. And as I balanced on the precipice of a new day, I found myself happy. So very happy. And so very very full.

paper & lace

The baby sister graduates from college next week. But when I look at her, I think, impossible.

I suppose it’s the age gap between us that makes my memories of her more vivid, and because I have such concrete visions of her childhood, it’s confusing almost that somewhere in the last 20 years, she grew up.

She also gets married in four months. Four. Months. So. Next week has been dubbed “Maurer Mania.” And between a gazillion trips to the airport for pick ups and drop offs, college commencements and convocations, one mother’s birthday, one Easter Sunday, one family concert (email me if you’d like to come), ogling Laela, Kaycie’s first session at the temple, and wedding dress shopping, we also have a bridal shower scheduled.

Can anyone say “party planning”? Ooo! Pick me! Yes m’am. That’s right. I’m pre.tty excited.

To start? All you need is a little paper and a little lace and you’ve got yourself the beginnings of what some might call: a shindig.

(how to: 1. print invite info on cardstock of any color and trim, leaving about an inch on left side. 2. layer different sizes of coordinating/contrasting papers that match the wedding colors–align left. 3. cut a piece of lace 3-5 inches longer than the length of the invite and place at top. 4. sew down middle of lace with an elongated stitch, pushing the lace into the needle to create the lacy ruffle. 5. mail in a coordinating envelope.)

Spring Cleaning: A Woman on a Mission

I know. Enough with the spring cleaning posts already. But seriously. Have you ever REALLY spring cleaned? It’s totally addicting and feels SO GOOD. And cleaning is pretty much all I’ve been doing since February when I went home to South Carolina help my mom with her house and then when my grandma died in the middle of that, it was on to her house next. Only to come home to Utah and dive right into my own house. (Wow. My English teachers would not be pleased with any of those sentences.)

But in all honesty. It’s been so theraputic to my little lost heart. As I’ve begun healing this New Year, the cleaning has given me purpose. I know what to do and how to do it. And organizing things–whether a party or a junk drawer–has always been a talent of mine. When my world spun out of control last year, going into hibernation mode was all I could do. But now, with every wall I wash, I feel like the shadows are dissipating. With every bookshelf I put in order, I can feel my own life righting itself and realigning on its axis.

So bear with me friends. I’m almost done. Well with the house cleaning at least. After that we’re on to decluttering the heart.

This weekend (in addition to attending a veritable spiritual feast) I finished the bathrooms and began my bedroom. Here are the checklists:

BATHROOM

1. Wash walls and cabinet fronts.

2. Empty drawers, shelves, and cabinets. Organize. Toss what you don’t use. Buy bins or plastic drawers to group like items.

3. Clean fan vent.

4. Disinfect tub/shower. Use Lime Away for rust or hard water stains built up on walls, doors, or spouts. Shine up faucets.

5. Get a new shower curtain liner (if applicable).

6. Wash and dry any rugs or mats.

7. Disinfect sink and counter.

8. Scrub toilet bowl and base.

9. Scrub floor.

BEDROOMS

1. Wash, dry, & iron window treatments.

2. Wipe window blinds.

3. Clean windows and sills.

4. Wash walls, baseboards, and doors.

5. Dust and Windex mirrors and picture frames.

6. Remove all bedding (sheets, mattress pads, pillow cases, shams, dust ruffles, etc.) and wash, dry, iron.

7. While bedding is being washed, move bed and vacuum underneath. Also vacuum mattress top and rotate or flip.

8. Replace any pillows that are flat or old.

9. Dust shelves, dressers, and tables.

10. Empty drawers and organize. Don’t forget to nicely refold clothes, getting rid of items you no longer wear/use. Drawer bins are helpful for scarves, belts, socks, etc.

11. Donate any books you don’t need/read and dust the tops and spines. Replace on shelves alphabetically & topically.

12. Empty closet. Donate items you don’t wear/want. Vacuum floor and wipe down walls before replacing clothes/shoes. Hang clothes systematically by type and color. I’m also partial to matching hangers. Purchase floor shelves, over the door organizers, hooks, or shoe racks as needed.

13. Go through jewelry box/drawer. Get rid of anything broken or out of style.

14. Vacuum rest of floor, moving furntiture like dressers and tables as needed.

15. Lastly, “fix” anything that doesn’t feel right. i.e. change out pictures in frames. Recover an old throw pillow. Redecorate a corner that needs refreshing. etc.